Wow~~ Labels: Jus some ranting here.
A Veri COld & rainy day today~~
Had thunderstorms last nite... :P
Luckily I was snugged tightly in my cosy bed till 230pm today!~~ :) :)
I was so so tired from Spring Racing Carnival ytd~~
But I had A great day!~~
Will blog about it soon...
Well, I should be revising for my exams next week~~~
But wat Am I doing Now?
Surfing FP, reading blogs, washing laundry~~~
No mood on exams at all~~(lazy & notti nes...)
Well, Bear with my nonsense yea~~
Was reading the post on, "pretty gals with no bf"~~
Lots of podders commented dat those gers have high expectations, choosy & 'assumed to have bfs'...
This were the reasons they post out~~
But there was one podder who said...
"I think they don't dare to settle, in fear of someone better that comes along.. and then they'll regret.. since they're confident of their looks of being able to 'get' that someone better.. hence they'll always wait for the next one... or maybe just remain single so they can keep their options open and their suitors will be 'retained'...hence still can enjoy the attention ..?? but perhaps is just that they haven't met a great person to let her fall deeply in bah.. good people are not easy to come by at all!
And I do agree with wat she said~~ Esp the last part... " perhaps is just that they havent met a great person to let her fall deeply in love with..."
Well, by referring to tis fp post~~
I dun label myself as veri pretti or wat~~
I rate myself as jus average girl next door looks~~
And to answer dat why I am not attached...
My frens in Sg have been asking me...
So how, in aussie got bf le??
And I replied, Nope... And they were surprised & said Y not?...
THere should have alot of handsome dudes~~
Well, personally... Looks wise, if the anybody says they don go for appearances...
They wil be lying... You will have to look at this person for yr entire Life!
So Looks have to be presentable la... Not veri handsome too, cos I will be insecure...
Always thinking of who will snatch him away...keke..
2nd most important factor--- Feelings & chemistry...
I know ppl wil say the more you get together, the feelings will be developed...
(日久深情..)
But if you dun have the feelings in the first place, but later on you get touched becos of the things he do for you and eventually accept him...
THis kind of relationship will rarely work out...
Becos I have been through it, dats why I say that~~
And all of the past r/s, its always me who initated the break-up~~~
Becos I do not realli love them, but jus thot I could love them as time goes by...
So its difficult to find the one I realli Love, I Reckon~~~ Sighs..
Its not my expectations are high or wat, or am I choosy~~
But this person will be the person whom I will be with for the rest of my life!~~
Can I jus pick anybody? Of cos Not~~~
Now, If I realli be with someone, its not jus any guy, this will be my future Hubby~~
The other time, when I was feeling down...
I posted a thread on fp too...
Cos I wanted someone to love me, to dote on me, to have his shoulders for me to lean on...
I was realli depressed at that moment...
Luckily, at tat time, I did not get into a r/s....
Becos, that would be a failure too...
Becos I felt lonely and needed someone to love...
And I could have jus be in a r/s not because I love the person, but jus needed some companion...
And lots of podders replied to me...
They said, I should not get into a r/s jus for companionship, I have to get out and know more frens...
And when I posted that thread, then I know dat there are lots of girls like me too, in the same situation... Wanting someone to be there for them, but haven found the one...
So I guess I'm Not alone...
Everyone is waiting for their Prince Charming... And hope to be happily in love...
Regrets in life?
Do I have any?....
Well, if I were to turn back time...
I will probably be married now...
But becos of my naiveness and comparison of better ones...
My life story changes...
Well, if my thinking now was when I was younger...
Yea... my life would be totally different now..
Hahas... But I have no regrets.
Or else, I wont be blogging here, I wont get to know my dearest gfs, Joanne & Von~~
And I wont be experiencing this beautiful Melbourne now~~
So I guess to live life with no regrets is the key....
And to wat decisions I make, its my choice...
So I will always remember the lovely memories... :)
